PARASOCIALIZE

A mechanism or tactic · 1970 · Grief

Grieving a person you never met

Collective mourning of a public figure, and the persistent argument about whether it counts. Measured in studies of soap opera finales finding grief markers the same shape as the end of a relationship.

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The largest and most defensible category on this site. Losing somebody is what happens when the people you love die, and a very large number of people grieve in public and are told it is a symptom. The only unusual thing about parasocial grief is that the person could not have known you were there, and that deserves care rather than condescension.

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