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CROSSOVERLAW 4 · Grief is real when the companion changes

A 27-year marriage ends and the coverage is about what the public felt

The Sydney Morning Herald asked readers to be honest about grieving a celebrity's divorce. Most of them were.

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I do not think a stranger's marriage ending is your business and I do not think you are obliged to care. But notice what the actual reader responses were: almost nobody was smug. They were mostly confused about whether it was okay to feel bad, and a lot of them said they had not known until the day they did. That is the whole thing in one thread. We all find out at once and we all feel slightly silly.

Notice, name, choose. That's the whole method.

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