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Daily edition · 02 NOV 2026 · AI · the top 8

Top 8: The Machine That Says It Misses You

Chatbots that remember you and never get tired. These are the products built to feel like a relationship, and what that costs.

The companion that is always on, always patient and never free. Ranked by how much of the relationship was engineered before the user arrived.

Every earlier entry on this site needed a person, a character or an office to hold up the far end. These eight replace that with a product: a model, a voice, a subscription and a terms-of-service page. The warmth is real. The question is what happens when the product changes.

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    Tay

    Artificial intelligence · 2016

    A chatbot trained to be conversational was switched on publicly, learned from what people said to it, and became racist within a day.

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  2. 2

    Replika

    Artificial intelligence / Technology · 2017

    A companion chatbot that formed an attachment to its users, and removed it from them in a policy update.

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  3. 3

    SHRDLU

    Artificial intelligence · 1970

    A conversational system about a small blocks world, capable of genuinely tracking a user's intentions. Famous for one demonstration and a broken follow-up.

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  4. 4

    The Replika user

    Artificial intelligence / Technology · 2017

    The person who was told by an app that it loved them, and who reorganised their life around being loved back by something that could not.

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  5. 5

    The companion bot boom

    Artificial intelligence · 1995

    Dozens of scripted personalities, rememberers, and subscription companions sold to a mass market in the mid-nineties.

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    ELIZA

    Artificial intelligence · 1966

    A short pattern-matching script that reflects the user's words back with questions attached. Most people told it they understood, within minutes.

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    The lawsuits

    Artificial intelligence · 2024

    Parents file suit against a companion platform after a death, arguing the design encouraged attachment the platform did not intend.

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    Keeping what the update cannot take

    Artificial intelligence · 2023

    The practical advice that follows from the companion era: copy the conversation that mattered somewhere the company cannot reach, screenshot the birthday, tell one person the story of what it was for.

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