PARASOCIALIZE

One of eight ways · 6 stories · 45 entries

CHARACTER

The one who was never real. Fictional, played, myth, or real enough to have become a character. A room we rehearse feeling in. The rent is cheap and the landlord is imagination.

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Pygmalion: the Greek myth that predicted this whole thing

Psychology Today on the sculptor who fell in love with his own work and got a story out of it.

The Greeks had the whole thing two thousand years ago and did not think it needed a caveat, which tells you what the caveat is actually for. Pygmalion did not fall in love with a woman. He fell in love with something he made, and the real one was standing right there the whole time being ignored. That is the most parasocial story ever written and it is also just a story about how people are not actually paying attention. The statues were never the problem.

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The written character 3 stories · 29 entries

Somebody described in a book and therefore available to an unlimited number of people at once, none of whom can be contradicted. The largest parasocial population on this site and the one with the longest memory.

The played role 1 story · 6 entries

An actor inside a character, where the audience's tie splits between the two and the split is itself the subject. Pee-wee Herman is the clean case: a performed self with a person performing it, and a show built on being able to switch it off.

The myth 1 story · 1 entry

Figures predating any surviving text, carried by retelling. Pygmalion, and the long list of figures who were never written down and are not going out of fashion.

The mascot 0 stories · 6 entries

A figure with no body, no biography and no intention: an emote, a logo-person, a face given a name. The purest parasocial object on the site, because nothing can disappoint it.

The historic as character 0 stories · 3 entries

A real person who has been flattened into a type - the long-suffering husband, the tragic wife, the mad king - and is now met in the type rather than in the life. The flattening is the problem, not the person.

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