PARASOCIALIZE

One of eight ways · 20 stories · 57 entries

PERSONA

The one who performs at you. A real person, doing a job, in front of you. Real, and working. Which is what makes it complicated - the asymmetry is manufactured by somebody who is paid to produce it.

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An economics think tank argues parasocial relationships are just imaginary friends for adults

AEI, on Farrah Fawcett posters in 1976. It is the least sympathetic framing of the week and the most useful one.

I am going to defend this one against its own author. The Farrah Fawcett poster panic of 1976 and this piece are the same document written twice, and the thing worth noticing is that neither of them can imagine that a relationship could be real without being a dysfunction. A person naming a dog in a bar is not a symptom. Sometimes a friendship with a fictional person is the only friendship on offer, and the correct response is not a correction.

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The idol 13 stories · 30 entries

A performer at enough distance that the work is mostly finished before you arrive. Musicians, film stars, athletes, heads of state treated as performers rather than as office-holders. The tie is to a body of work and a public image that the person is not required to maintain for you.

The daily creator 5 stories · 10 entries

A person whose output is regular enough to have a place in your week, and who is visible in real time. Streamers, podcasters, video essayists, talk hosts. The tie is to the schedule before it is to the person.

The presenter 0 stories · 9 entries

The one who addresses you directly, by name, in second person. Newsreaders, weathermen, game show hosts, telethon appeals. The purest case of Horton's direct address: the illusion is engineered, and it works because it is engineered.

The athlete 0 stories · 5 entries

Attachment to performance rather than to a person. You follow the sport and the person arrives attached to it. Transfer, retirement and injury are the recurring breaks, which is why this sits so close to the archive register.

The head of state 1 story · 3 entries

Someone addressed as a collective rather than as an individual. The parasocial tie is to a role that outlives the person holding it, which is a different object from an idol's and breaks differently.

Other ways

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